To be frank, Sometimes people make crucial mistakes in their relationships or they make the wrong impressions. Despite the past mistakes you can always go ahead and try to change the person's opinion about you. As a man you can trigger some emotions of a woman to show her the traits she might like in a person.
Don't be obsessed with the things you have done wrong. There is no need to concentrate on anything that has passed. The only right thing to do is to understand what you have to do differently this time to be understood or seen in a different way.
Keep your distance. Usually as you make a wrong impression on a person or make them mad it takes time for them to recover from the past experience. So you have to stay away for a while. Trying to change someone's opinion about you fast usually does not work. If you get obsessed by the idea to show yourself in a new way it often looks annoying, especially if the person had some negative thoughts and you are trying to get in their face or initiate a lot of communication. So give it some time, let your flaws or mistakes become dim memories.
When the impressions, feelings become less strong and you've waited some time to reflect on what you want to do, go ahead and initiate contact. If you have done something wrong and you definitely know it then you can sincerely apologize, but don't over do it. If it was only a bad impression or anything like that, be simple, caring and nice and don't show that you are nervous about what she's going to think. Remember, that often people analyze others a lot less than we think so don't be afraid.
When you start to communicate in a positive or at least polite manner you can show her the side you really want to be seen. Don't fake it, if you don't feel like you can change the person's mind about you and feel that their impression is right. Remember that women can sense fake behavior very well. Try to express yourself in a manner that she will understand, watch her reactions. Surprise her with a different approach to the things that scared her off or made her feel bad and disappointed in the first place. When communicating, never focus on past mistakes, fails, conflicts or anything like that. Make it a new beginning. Hiding your thoughts about the past is usually not enough, because if you think about it secretly it still reflects on your behavior. So you have to let go of anything that happened before. If there was some drama, show her that you care. If she considers you a loser, show her that you don't worry about it. Actually it is a very simple strategy. The key is to stay cool, confident, be sincere and have some patience. Respect her, but don't show any desperation if you want to keep her interested.
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