This has happened to me, believe me Nepicity.com doesn’t know how to lie because am about to give you the best tips so far, so tell me, have you ever become friends with a girl you're in love with, then find out she has a boyfriend? she may have told you, or you saw her with him (hugging, kissing, etc.), and you think that should be you with her. here are some steps and tips on how to sweep her off her feet and convince her to go out with you instead. Talk to her. Get some type of communication going between the two of you. Build some history. This takes time. She has to know you and think about you. She isn't going to leave her boyfriend for someone she doesn't know, or hasn't known for long. Most of the time, you'll be chasing her for a long while. Build trust. Do things with her after work/school, listen to what she say, make her laugh, she must really like and trust you for you to get anywhere. Still, don't submit to her all the time. Remember that you're still 'the alpha dog'. Whether she knows it or not, most girls look to their boyfriend as a 'leader' of sorts. If you are too nice, you will end up being used as a free counselor. Figure out what she needs (or wants) that her current boyfriend can't or doesn't give her. Does he swear at her or get angry? Does he forget about her? Does he act like he doesn't care? Does he flirt with other girls? Show her you are different! If you fill in the gaps of their relationship, she will start to compare you with him. That is the most important part. She has to look at her boyfriend and think about you.
Build on this second guessing so that you become the boyfriend replacement. If you're filling holes in her boyfriend's game, then it's only a matter of time. However, you must make sure that she can't use you while she is still with her boyfriend. If her boyfriend isn't giving her something, make sure you aren't just a secondary source she can get it from. Otherwise, you'll never end up replacing him. You can either wait for a breakup, encourage the breakup, or make something happen with her while she is still with her boyfriend.
Wait for a breakup. Definitely the hardest, most boring, but simplest way to go. Don't push for anything to happen and she won't feel pressured. The danger is that she takes you for granted and you will always be waiting.
Cause/encourage the breakup. If you followed earlier steps, she should talk to you about the mistakes her boyfriend makes. If it's serious, let her know that what he does isn't right and she doesn't have to put up with it. Tell her you could never do that to her.
Make something happen before they break. This is the riskiest move as you are asking her to cheat on her boyfriend. Aim for just one kiss. This kiss is supposed to make her realize you're a better choice than her boyfriend. If you're uncertain about taking such a risky move, aim for a kiss on the cheek.
--From my own experience (Nepicity.blogspot.com)…. Don't ever give her the impression all you like about her is the way she looks. Even if she is ridiculously hot, do your best not to be sleazy. That said, don't shy away from the intimate if she shows she's down for it. You're an alpha dog, remember?
Take your time, if you rush into things you can end up embarrassed and rejected.
Be confident.
Tread carefully near the boyfriend. Fighting him usually messes things up with you and the girl (although it can be to your advantage if you know what you are doing).
Let her naturally breakup with her boyfriend. Cheating is wrong, and if she did it to him, she can do it to you, too.
Take your time! There is no way to rush this, especially if she is close to her boyfriend, or if he is around so much she couldn't imagine not being with him. You could be here for maybe a year or more. It all comes down to how badly you want her.
Always be there for her. If you are there for her when her boyfriend isn't, there is a big chance she will start to fall for you!
After this girl does break up with her boyfriend, don't let them be best friends. It makes getting at her incredibly difficult.
Find out her favorite things to do and things she doesn't like.I gurantee her boyfriend doesnt know everything.
Wait for the right place at the right time, you need to make sure you're in a good place to make a move, but don't just skip straight to it and say you love her, wait for the right time maybe ask her at her job or at a place you "accidentally" bumped into her, bring up her boyfriend somehow and then you'll know they're "relationship stats"
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