(SECRET) HOW TO WIN A GUY BACK AFTER BEING DUMPED

He dumped you. But you want him back. Winning a guy back after he broke up with you is not an easy task. It takes time, dedication and a serious motivation to do. Here is Nepicity.blogspot.com tips on how to win a guy back after being dumped.

Do you really want to win him back? Why? Perhaps you should just move on.

Reflect on why he dumped you. Are you doing something that he cant stand? Are there tangible improvements that you should make in your life? Did he dump you because he's seeing someone else? Did someone like a parent place pressure on him to leave you? Is this just peer pressure? If the circumstances surrounding the reason he dumped you hasn't changed he'll end up dumping you again. Or worse, he may string you along because hes already exhausted his capacity to be straightforward with you when he dumped you the first time.

Often guys regret breaking up but socially don't know how to save face. Sometimes you don't really appreciate what you have until its gone. Sometimes to get him running back you need only give him a chance a note saying that a)you are sorry things didn't work out b)to the extent that anything was your fault, that you will do better if given the chance c)you still are in love with him d)call me anytime.

Sometimes it takes time. The older you are, the longer it takes. Then there is an age where it doesn't take long any more. But whenever the wait is over, you need to make steps to make sure it doesn't happen again. If it was a misunderstanding, you need to establish ways to prevent a misunderstanding in the future.

Connect your life with his. Have some interests like sports, clubbing etc., that you share with him. You will keep seeing him.

Organize your life. Have interests that have nothing to do with him. It would be something new and interesting for him. Be focused on yourself. Spend time to look good. Always have your own life. This way you always have something interesting to talk to him about.

Don't play games with your relationship. Mystery is wonderful until its gone then there is nothing left. Just be your self, but remember that you can use a little self improvement too. Expect the same from him.

Don't be a doormat. Its good to let him know that you are available for him and want to get back together with him. Don't make that fact the center of your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea and you may discover that you have grown beyond that relationship and another guy would suit you better.